People struggling to break free from addiction often feel like they are struggling alone; in reality, their addictions don’t just affect them, they affect friends and family as well. This is why family support plays such a vital role in addiction recovery. As a family member, spouse, or close friend of someone in recovery, you can and should be an integral part of the process. Seeking treatment is the first step in long-term recovery, but it isn’t the only step. Loving support is an important part of the lifelong journey that is achieving freedom from addiction.
But what does family support entail? If you are a family member, spouse, or close friend of someone seeking recovery, your supporting role can be crucial to helping your loved one become who they want to be. In the early stages of recovery, support is a commitment; it is important to decide early if you are able to make that commitment to help your loved one. It is also essential for you to recognize that you and your loved one may face obstacles in their recovery. It is important to make a plan to overcome challenges such as:
· Recovering from debt or other financial issues
· Gaining or regaining stable employment
· Ongoing physical and/or mental health struggles
· Repairing relationships and trust
Addiction is a chronic, progressive disease, and there is no “quick fix” solution. While your loved one might be seeking recovery, it is important to remember that does not mean they are “cured”, as healing from addiction can be a lifelong struggle, and there will be times they stumble.
Recovering addicts can often feel isolated, but with the love, encouragement, and understanding of family and friends, continued recovery and change is possible. If you have a loved one who is a recovering addict, consider reaching out to them and offering your love and encouragement. If you are in recovery, reach out to your family and friends for support. Our loved ones will always be our greatest strength when we need them.